Your life is like a book. Your normal life is disrupted, you need to solve a problem as a result. Your suffer a setback when your kids start screaming and yelling. You make some progress only to have your spouse discover your indiscretion/affair. You convince them it will never happen again, but they still file for divorce. You decide to end it all. Then discover that they were also having an affair. You feel better and decide you can’t go back to your old life so you move to another state, just to do it again.